Keep Your Hands Out The "Cookie Jar"

Someone asked that I blog about Cheating, So here's what I think: Cheaters are Selfish, Cowards!! I won't lie, I was a Selfish Coward back in the day. But I matured & I learned my lesson the hard way. I don't regret how I learned my lesson because it made me a better, faithful, loyal, partner. I will not try to understand why people cheat because it can be for numerous different reasons, which none of those reasons are Justification. Instead of using the term "Reasons", I think it's more appropriate to use the term "Excuses". Excuses can be from, Boredom, Unhappiness, Low Self-Esteem...Either way, the person doing the Cheating is being Selfish, because Obviously their only concern is satisfying their Needs and/or Wants, Not considering what kind of impact such selfish act can have on the one being cheated on. The Cheater is also considered to be a Coward, because instead of confronting whatever issue they are having before stepping out, they seek what they "think" would be the easier way out. I don't think Cheaters really consider what Consequences might come of it. The Cheater might just have intentions for one encounter...what if whom ever your cheating with doesn't want to accept that & threatens to ruin the relationship that you just thought of trying to work out. Here's my Experience {summarized}: I was dating someone who lived about 30min away, we hardly saw eachother, so whenever we were together it was just mostly sex. We didn't do things couple normally do. Anyway, I cheated, I felt bad & told him I cheated, out of spite, he then cheated on me, I found out from nude pics on his digi cam of the chick. That was the most shittiest feeling! Since I experienced what it felt like to be cheated on, I have a different attitude towards it. I have matured & don't see the need to cheat on your partner. If one really feels it necessary to explore outside the relationship then maybe you should'nt be in a relationship to begin with. If you feel bold enough to test the waters, you should be bold enough to encounter whatever Sharks that may be lurking in those waters. Keep in mind *Karma's a Bytch!! xoxo